The Talk: It’s Never Too Early To Have It
It’s time to have the talk – no, not that one, and you are a little embarrassed, a little unsure. You’re not certain of the reaction you’ll get; there may be some resistance, some surprise, maybe a delaying technique. But your love and concern override and you push forward. Mom, Dad, have you thought about…
Jon and You
Part of what makes my husband, Jon, so suited for our work is his uncanny ability to see what is so and size up what is needed. He misses neither the forest nor the trees. He hears what is being said plainly and not so plainly. His instincts and observations are spot on. His recommendations…
87 – A Love Letter to My Mom
My mom will celebrate her 87th birthday this month. Eighty-seven years is a long time to be alive. It’s a long time to inhabit a body. It represents roughly 762,626.34 hours, 45,757,580 minutes. And I am grateful for all of them. I‘m grateful for every moment that has made and makes my mom. I’m…
Essential Next Steps: Our Personal Journey
We started Essential Next Steps after working with our parents. My mother-in-law passed away unexpectedly after complications from surgery. She had done a beautiful job and given the great gift to her children of having her affairs in order. She provided a clear roadmap of how her estate was to be settled. My husband and…
Gifts
When I think of my father and the holidays, I always think of him in the kitchen. Cooking was one of his passions and holiday cooking beat all. He spared no resource to prepare this special meal; no pot, no pan, no bowl was left untouched. No spoon or baking dish, no counter space was…